WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:07.320 Hey guys, thanks for coming in. Sorry I'm late. As you know, this is the pre-marriage counseling session. 00:00:07.419 --> 00:00:11.359 I think that's adorable. This is a pre-marriage counseling session. It is mandatory in our state. 00:00:12.419 --> 00:00:15.060 And basically, we're just going to ask you a couple of questions. 00:00:16.080 --> 00:00:19.539 We're going to do a little bit of a compatibility test, nothing too involved. 00:00:20.640 --> 00:00:26.719 But if there's any issues that may come up in the past or whatnot, we'll deal with them 00:00:26.719 --> 00:00:31.439 and get you guys on your way to being a happily long-lived married couple. 00:00:31.619 --> 00:00:31.939 Sounds good? 00:00:32.299 --> 00:00:32.500 Yeah. 00:00:32.839 --> 00:00:33.060 Okay. 00:00:33.280 --> 00:00:33.700 Sounds good. 00:00:34.119 --> 00:00:35.579 How long have you guys been going out? 00:00:36.039 --> 00:00:37.700 For about five months now, I'd say. 00:00:37.920 --> 00:00:38.479 Five months. 00:00:38.619 --> 00:00:38.840 Okay. 00:00:39.159 --> 00:00:39.439 Right. 00:00:39.600 --> 00:00:39.820 Okay. 00:00:40.280 --> 00:00:41.079 Where do you guys meet? 00:00:42.479 --> 00:00:42.920 Vegas. 00:00:43.920 --> 00:00:45.500 Anywhere in particular or just kind of? 00:00:45.960 --> 00:00:47.679 Just on the strip, I guess. 00:00:47.679 --> 00:00:51.120 Yeah, we just walk in by and kind of bump into each other. 00:00:51.239 --> 00:00:52.159 Must have been some bump. 00:00:52.379 --> 00:00:52.560 Yeah. 00:00:54.039 --> 00:00:54.799 What are your names? 00:00:54.799 --> 00:00:55.799 I'm Orville. 00:00:55.799 --> 00:00:56.799 And I'm Jenny. 00:00:56.799 --> 00:00:57.799 Nice. 00:00:57.799 --> 00:00:58.799 Let me get you a couple. 00:00:58.799 --> 00:01:03.799 What's the last name to be that you guys are going to be? 00:01:03.799 --> 00:01:05.799 Mr. and Mrs. Red and Cocker. 00:01:05.799 --> 00:01:06.799 Red and Cocker. 00:01:06.799 --> 00:01:08.799 Do you guys have any children by previous marriage? 00:01:08.799 --> 00:01:10.799 Have you guys ever been married before? 00:01:10.799 --> 00:01:11.799 No. 00:01:11.799 --> 00:01:12.799 I haven't. 00:01:12.799 --> 00:01:13.799 Okay. 00:01:13.799 --> 00:01:14.799 And any children? 00:01:14.799 --> 00:01:15.799 No. 00:01:15.799 --> 00:01:16.799 Not that I know of. 00:01:16.799 --> 00:01:17.799 Not that you know of. 00:01:17.799 --> 00:01:18.799 Okay. 00:01:18.799 --> 00:01:19.799 Very good. 00:01:19.799 --> 00:01:20.799 Do you guys have a place to live? 00:01:20.799 --> 00:01:22.799 Like, do you have a house or are you living with your folks? 00:01:22.799 --> 00:01:23.799 We have a little condo. 00:01:23.799 --> 00:01:24.719 We have a little condo. 00:01:25.280 --> 00:01:25.640 Condo? 00:01:25.739 --> 00:01:27.819 You guys are making plans. 00:01:28.579 --> 00:01:28.859 Okay. 00:01:29.759 --> 00:01:31.340 You guys have any plans for the honeymoon? 00:01:31.459 --> 00:01:31.840 Where are you going to go? 00:01:32.840 --> 00:01:33.359 I don't know. 00:01:34.039 --> 00:01:35.200 You got to talk to her on that one. 00:01:35.500 --> 00:01:35.939 I don't know. 00:01:36.079 --> 00:01:39.099 I kind of want to go overseas, but we're just budget. 00:01:39.399 --> 00:01:39.819 We'll see. 00:01:40.179 --> 00:01:40.459 I don't know. 00:01:40.979 --> 00:01:41.280 Nice. 00:01:42.039 --> 00:01:43.140 You have a lot of people coming to the wedding? 00:01:44.700 --> 00:01:45.939 A few and chosen, I'd say. 00:01:46.280 --> 00:01:46.500 Yeah. 00:01:46.599 --> 00:01:46.799 Okay. 00:01:47.120 --> 00:01:48.920 Big wedding, small wedding, kind of medium wedding? 00:01:49.060 --> 00:01:49.659 I'd say medium. 00:01:49.700 --> 00:01:50.159 Private thing? 00:01:50.159 --> 00:01:50.280 Yeah. 00:01:50.420 --> 00:01:50.959 Say about medium? 00:01:50.959 --> 00:01:51.459 Medium, yeah. 00:01:51.679 --> 00:01:51.939 Okay. 00:01:52.019 --> 00:01:52.239 Excellent. 00:01:52.239 --> 00:01:59.179 Now, for the next part of the session, what we're going to do is we're going to ask you 00:01:59.179 --> 00:02:00.780 guys some relatively in-depth questions. 00:02:00.780 --> 00:02:05.419 They might get a little embarrassing, but we would like you to be as honest as possible 00:02:05.419 --> 00:02:09.060 because as you know, honesty in a relationship is key. 00:02:09.060 --> 00:02:10.060 Communication is key. 00:02:10.060 --> 00:02:14.479 And those are two of the traits that we know will contribute to a successful marriage. 00:02:14.479 --> 00:02:15.479 Cool? 00:02:15.479 --> 00:02:16.479 Cool. 00:02:16.479 --> 00:02:17.479 So, Jane. 00:02:17.479 --> 00:02:18.479 It was very nice. 00:02:18.479 --> 00:02:19.479 Thank you. 00:02:19.479 --> 00:02:20.479 I actually appreciate when couples dress up. 00:02:20.479 --> 00:02:21.759 I actually appreciate when couples dress up. 00:02:22.519 --> 00:02:23.159 At least one of you do. 00:02:23.500 --> 00:02:23.739 Anyway. 00:02:25.739 --> 00:02:26.579 We're going to have sex. 00:02:26.599 --> 00:02:27.099 I'm just kidding. 00:02:27.679 --> 00:02:28.159 That's fine. 00:02:28.219 --> 00:02:28.679 We all work hard. 00:02:29.079 --> 00:02:30.679 Anyway, so tell me. 00:02:31.159 --> 00:02:33.280 Have you, this your first time being in love? 00:02:33.379 --> 00:02:33.939 Or this is? 00:02:35.079 --> 00:02:35.399 Yeah. 00:02:35.959 --> 00:02:36.179 Yeah. 00:02:37.239 --> 00:02:40.259 Outside of, you know, my little kindergarten first love. 00:02:40.560 --> 00:02:42.139 You know, this is it. 00:02:42.339 --> 00:02:42.579 All right. 00:02:42.639 --> 00:02:43.599 No puppy love on this one? 00:02:43.799 --> 00:02:44.099 No. 00:02:44.459 --> 00:02:47.280 Are your parents, are both your parents cool with the whole relationship? 00:02:47.560 --> 00:02:47.780 Yeah. 00:02:48.239 --> 00:02:48.500 Nice. 00:02:48.539 --> 00:02:48.659 Yeah. 00:02:48.839 --> 00:02:49.079 Okay. 00:02:49.080 --> 00:02:50.800 You guys all get along, the in-laws and whatnot? 00:02:50.980 --> 00:02:52.040 Yeah, my parents love him. 00:02:52.680 --> 00:02:53.920 Okay, very good. 00:02:54.500 --> 00:02:59.840 Would you say that your sexual experience, and like I said, this might get a little embarrassing, 00:02:59.840 --> 00:03:05.820 but would you say that your sexual experience is varied, or are you relatively inexperienced? 00:03:06.100 --> 00:03:10.100 Or how would you rate your prowess? 00:03:12.600 --> 00:03:17.460 Relatively inexperienced, but not hidden in a closet, I guess. 00:03:17.820 --> 00:03:18.300 Oh, okay. 00:03:18.300 --> 00:03:20.300 Was he your first? 00:03:20.300 --> 00:03:22.300 Um, no. 00:03:22.300 --> 00:03:26.300 Okay. Alright. Well, just, you know, it's good to know. I mean, it's not like, you know, like I said, there's no secrets here. 00:03:26.300 --> 00:03:27.300 Yeah. 00:03:27.300 --> 00:03:30.300 So Orville, tell me about you. Is this your first true love? 00:03:30.300 --> 00:03:32.300 True? Uh, yes, sir. 00:03:32.300 --> 00:03:37.300 Nice. Okay. Very good. And would you consider yourself sexually experienced? 00:03:37.300 --> 00:03:39.300 Uh, I would say. Would you say? 00:03:39.300 --> 00:03:40.300 Yeah. 00:03:40.300 --> 00:03:44.300 Nice. You guys, uh, you guys, so apparently you guys, you guys do have a good sex life. 00:03:44.300 --> 00:03:45.300 Yeah. 00:03:45.300 --> 00:03:46.300 Okay. Good. 00:03:46.300 --> 00:03:47.300 Five months, you know. 00:03:48.300 --> 00:03:49.060 That's a good start. 00:03:49.439 --> 00:03:50.000 Put in the time. 00:03:50.260 --> 00:03:51.180 Now, I do have a question. 00:03:52.400 --> 00:03:53.620 So you guys have been going out for five months. 00:03:54.000 --> 00:03:55.040 Are you guys together all the time? 00:03:56.080 --> 00:03:56.880 Most part, yeah. 00:03:56.920 --> 00:03:57.580 Yeah, for the most part. 00:03:57.780 --> 00:03:58.000 Okay. 00:03:58.200 --> 00:04:01.420 But is there any time you guys spend away from each other, either at work or going out 00:04:01.420 --> 00:04:02.680 partying with other friends? 00:04:03.100 --> 00:04:07.780 Yeah, if I, you know, we hang out with my, if I hang out with my sister or he parties 00:04:07.780 --> 00:04:08.920 with his friends, you know. 00:04:08.939 --> 00:04:10.040 I've been out with a guy a few times. 00:04:10.260 --> 00:04:10.460 Okay. 00:04:10.460 --> 00:04:12.120 And you guys trust each other completely? 00:04:13.220 --> 00:04:13.480 Yeah. 00:04:13.660 --> 00:04:13.900 Nice. 00:04:14.020 --> 00:04:14.180 Okay. 00:04:14.320 --> 00:04:15.420 So there's no reason to doubt. 00:04:15.840 --> 00:04:18.280 So Orville, as I was saying, we... 00:04:18.300 --> 00:04:25.300 had you fill out a questionnaire. It's a confidential questionnaire, but the questions are shared 00:04:25.300 --> 00:04:32.300 with your significant other. Again, it's a whole building of trust and making sure that 00:04:32.300 --> 00:04:37.300 you guys don't go into the marriage with any preconceived notions or secrets or whatnot. 00:04:37.300 --> 00:04:40.300 Unfortunately, one of the questions you did answer that...